40 Valentine's Day Icebreaker Questions

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• 1. Do you write a long message inside a card or just sign your name?

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  write a long messagejust sign your name

• 2. Would you rather get a handmade card covered in glitter or a store card with a really funny joke?

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  a handmade card covered in glittera store card with a really funny joke

• 3. Do you read a card before or after opening the gift that came with it?

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  beforeafter opening the gift

• 4. When you made class valentines as a kid, did you pick a favorite for each friend or hand them out at random?

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  pick a favorite for each friendhand them out at random

• 5. Would you rather receive a note tucked in your lunch or a note stuck to the bathroom mirror?

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  a note tucked in your luncha note stuck to the bathroom mirror

• 6. Do you keep old greeting cards in a box or recycle them after a week?

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  keep old greeting cards in a boxrecycle them after a week

• 7. Would you rather write a silly poem for a friend or draw them a cartoon?

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  write a silly poemdraw them a cartoon

• 8. Are you a pun-card person or a sweet-and-sincere card person?

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  a pun-card persona sweet-and-sincere card person

• 9. Would you rather mail a card the old-fashioned way or send a heart-filled video message?

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  mail a card the old-fashioned waysend a heart-filled video message

• 10. Is a valentine better delivered in person or secretly left on a desk?

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  delivered in personsecretly left on a desk

• 11. Chalky candy hearts with tiny messages: love them or leave them?

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  love themleave them

• 12. Would you rather get a heart-shaped box of chocolates or a giant heart-shaped cookie?

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  a heart-shaped box of chocolatesa giant heart-shaped cookie

• 13. In a box of mixed chocolates, do you bite to check the filling or pop the whole piece in?

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  bite to check the fillingpop the whole piece in

• 14. Strawberries dipped in chocolate or pink frosted cupcakes?

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  strawberries dipped in chocolatepink frosted cupcakes

• 15. Would you rather open a valentine from a mystery sender or always know exactly who it came from?

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  open a valentine from a mystery senderalways know exactly who it came from

• 16. Do you eat all your Valentine's candy in one day or ration it for weeks?

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  eat all your Valentine's candy in one dayration it for weeks

• 17. Red velvet cake: actually delicious or just a pretty color?

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  actually deliciousjust a pretty color

• 18. Would you rather sip hot cocoa with heart marshmallows or a strawberry milkshake?

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  hot cocoa with heart marshmallowsa strawberry milkshake

• 19. Do you save the prettiest piece of candy for last or eat it first?

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  save the prettiest piece of candy for lasteat it first

• 20. Would you rather share a heart-shaped pizza with friends or a dessert fondue?

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  a heart-shaped pizzaa dessert fondue

• 21. Is Valentine's Day really for everyone you care about or mostly for couples?

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  for everyone you care aboutmostly for couples

• 22. Would you rather throw a friends-only Valentine's brunch or a cozy movie night with your besties?

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  a friends-only Valentine's bruncha cozy movie night with your besties

• 23. Would you rather give a valentine to your pet or to your favorite neighbor?

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  to your petto your favorite neighbor

• 24. Would you rather plan a surprise for your best friend or be surprised by them?

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  plan a surprise for your best friendbe surprised by them

• 25. Does a Valentine's craft afternoon sound fun or a little too sticky?

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  funa little too sticky

• 26. Would you rather receive one perfect flower or a bunch of paper hearts made by a kid?

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  one perfect flowera bunch of paper hearts made by a kid

• 27. Would you rather send a thank-you valentine to a teacher or to a coach?

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  to a teacherto a coach

• 28. On February 14, do you go all out or treat it like a regular day?

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  go all outtreat it like a regular day

• 29. Would you rather do a secret valentine swap with your group or a group gift for one lucky friend?

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  a secret valentine swapa group gift for one lucky friend

• 30. Is the best Valentine's gift something you can keep or something you can do together?

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  something you can keepsomething you can do together

• 31. Pink or red: which is the real color of Valentine's Day?

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  pinkred

• 32. Do you wear something red on February 14 or skip the theme?

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  wear something redskip the theme

• 33. Would you rather decorate with paper heart garlands or heart-shaped balloons?

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  paper heart garlandsheart-shaped balloons

• 34. Teddy bear holding a heart: adorable or a bit much?

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  adorablea bit much

• 35. Would you rather cut perfect paper hearts on the first try or tie a perfect bow every time?

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  cut perfect paper hearts on the first trytie a perfect bow every time

• 36. Do you prefer Valentine's decorations that are cute and cartoony or elegant and simple?

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  cute and cartoonyelegant and simple

• 37. Would you rather get breakfast in bed shaped like hearts or a heart drawn in the foam of your morning drink?

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  breakfast in bed shaped like heartsa heart drawn in the foam of your morning drink

• 38. Are heart-shaped foods more fun to make or more fun to eat?

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  more fun to makemore fun to eat

• 39. Would you rather paint kindness rocks with hearts or leave sticky-note compliments around town?

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  paint kindness rocks with heartsleave sticky-note compliments around town

• 40. If you could rename Valentine's Day, would you call it Friendship Day or Kindness Day?

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  Friendship DayKindness Day

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